Self-Audit: How to Analyze Your Own Dating Profile (Free Checklist)
Why aren't you getting matches? Use our 10-point self-audit checklist to find the red flags in your photos and bio that are driving dates away.
You think your profile is great. The market begs to differ.
It’s hard to read the label when you are inside the jar. Most people make subtle mistakes—'Red Flags'—that they don't even notice.
Use this 10-Point Self-Audit to ruthlessly analyze your profile from a stranger’s perspective.
#1The 3-Second Test
The Test: Open your profile. Look at your first photo for 3 seconds. Look away.
The Question: Can you clearly see your eyes? Are you smiling?
Fail: If you are wearing sunglasses, looking down, or in a group. Fix: Switch to a clear headshot immediately.
#2The 'Red Flag' Hunt (Photos)
- Bathroom Selfies: Immediate delete. It screams 'lazy'.
- Fish Photos: It’s a meme for a reason. Unless you are a pro fisherman, cut it.
- Ex-Girlfriend Crop: If there is a floating arm around your shoulder, she assumes you aren't over it.
- Gym Flex: Often perceived as vain unless it’s an action shot.
#3The 'Negativity' Audit (Bio)
The Test: Read your bio. Count the negative words ('Don't', 'No', 'If you are...').
The Insight: Profiles that list requirements ('Don't swipe if you are shallow') sound bitter. Profiles that list passions ('Swipe if you love jazz') sound inviting.
Fix: Rewrite every negative requirement as a positive desire.
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